"For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives."
â Hebrews 12:6
Quick Answer
No, not as an ongoing, comfortable pattern. Scripture teaches that genuine believers are given a new heart that produces conviction over sin (Ezekiel 36:26, 1 John 3:9), and God actively disciplines His children who wander (Hebrews 12:6-11). Total, permanent absence of remorse is a serious warning sign, not a mark of assurance.
A Question That Deserves a Careful Answer
This question usually comes from one of two places: worry about oneself, or worry about a loved one who professes faith yet seems entirely unbothered by ongoing sin. Both concerns deserve a careful, biblical answer rather than either false comfort or needless despair. Scripture gives a clear, if sobering, response: a settled pattern of sin with zero remorse over time is not the normal condition of a genuine believer, and where it persists unbroken, it raises real questions about whether saving faith is actually present.
This is not the same as saying true Christians never sin or never have seasons of coldness. It is saying that total, comfortable, unremorseful sin as a person's permanent, unchanging trajectory is inconsistent with what the Bible describes happening in a genuinely regenerated heart.
The New Heart Produces Sensitivity, Not Numbness
God promises through Ezekiel a new covenant reality: I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). A heart of stone feels nothing; a heart of flesh feels, including conviction over sin. John states this even more strongly: no one born of God makes a practice of sinning, for God's seed abides in him, and he cannot keep on sinning because he has been born of God (1 John 3:9), describing a settled inability to remain comfortable in ongoing, unchallenged sin.
This does not mean believers achieve sinless perfection; John himself says elsewhere that if we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves (1 John 1:8). It means genuine faith produces an ongoing, active resistance to sin and grief when it occurs, the opposite of remorseless indifference.
God Disciplines the Children He Loves
One reason true believers cannot indefinitely sin without any consequence to their conscience is that God actively intervenes. The Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives... If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons (Hebrews 12:6-8). This discipline can come through the conviction of the Spirit, the loving correction of other believers, or painful providences designed to bring a wandering child back. Its presence, even when unwelcome, is actually evidence of genuine sonship, not divine indifference.
Paul describes this happening concretely in the Corinthian church, some believers had become sick and some had died because of careless, unrepentant sin around the Lord's Supper, discipline he explains as the Lord's judging us so that we may not be condemned along with the world (1 Corinthians 11:30-32), painful but ultimately protective.
Judas and Peter Show Two Very Different Paths
Peter denied Christ three times, a serious, deliberate failure, yet went out and wept bitterly (Matthew 26:75), remorse that led him back to restoration with Jesus. Judas betrayed Christ and also felt remorse, but his response led not to repentance and return but to despair and death (Matthew 27:3-5). The presence of some feeling after sin is not automatically saving; what matters is whether it leads, over time, to genuine repentance and renewed pursuit of Christ, or to a hardened, settled indifference that never turns back.
If someone shows a consistent, years-long pattern of sin with literally no conviction, no discomfort, no response to correction, and no movement toward Christ, 2 Corinthians 13:5 counsels honest self-examination: examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. That examination is meant to drive a person to genuine faith, not merely to anxious doubt.
What About the Parable of the Weeds?
Jesus told a parable of a field sown with good seed in which an enemy also sowed weeds, and the servants were told to let both grow together until the harvest rather than uprooting the weeds prematurely (Matthew 13:24-30). Some believers use this to explain how apparently remorseless professing Christians can persist for a long season within the visible church. It is a sober reminder that not everyone who looks like wheat actually is wheat, and that the final sorting belongs to God's timing, not ours, at the end of the age (Matthew 13:39-40).
This parable is not license for indifference toward a brother or sister showing no remorse over sin; Scripture elsewhere commands loving confrontation (Galatians 6:1, Matthew 18:15-17). It is, rather, a caution against despair when such patterns persist longer than we would like, and a reminder that only God ultimately reads the heart with certainty (1 Samuel 16:7).
A Word of Hope for the Anxious Reader
If you are troubled enough by this question to be reading an article about it, that concern itself is likely evidence of a tender, Spirit-sensitive conscience rather than the remorseless heart the question describes. Genuine remorselessness typically does not worry about its own remorselessness. Bring your specific struggles honestly to God, trust that conviction is a gift meant to lead you home rather than a punishment, and keep pursuing Christ, who receives wandering, grieving sinners with open arms every single time (Luke 15:20).