"O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt."
â Matthew 26:39
Quick Answer
After the Last Supper, Jesus went with His disciples to the Garden of Gethsemane, where He prayed in anguish for the Father's will to be done despite the horror of the coming cross (Matthew 26:39), while His closest disciples repeatedly fell asleep. Judas then arrived with an armed crowd, betrayed Jesus with a kiss, and He was arrested.
A Familiar Place for a Final Struggle
After the Last Supper, Jesus led His disciples across the Kidron Valley to a garden called Gethsemane, on the Mount of Olives, a place John notes Jesus often visited with His disciples (John 18:1-2, Luke 22:39). The name Gethsemane means 'oil press,' fitting for a place where Jesus would be crushed under the weight of what lay ahead. He brought Peter, James, and John further into the garden, telling them, 'My soul is exceeding sorrowful, even unto death: tarry ye here, and watch with me' (Matthew 26:37-38).
This was not staged drama; the Gospels describe genuine, overwhelming distress. Mark says Jesus began to be 'sore amazed, and to be very heavy' (Mark 14:33), language suggesting shock and dread at what He was about to face.
A Prayer of Real Anguish and Real Submission
Going a little further, Jesus fell on His face and prayed, 'O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt' (Matthew 26:39). The 'cup' He asked to have removed represents the coming ordeal of the cross, and more specifically, bearing God's wrath against sin as the substitute for His people (Isaiah 51:17, Jeremiah 25:15). This was not Jesus wavering on His mission; it was the honest cry of a truly human will confronting horror, submitted entirely to the Father's will.
Luke's Gospel adds a detail found nowhere else: 'being in an agony he prayed more earnestly: and his sweat was as it were great drops of blood falling down to the ground,' and an angel appeared to strengthen Him (Luke 22:43-44). Jesus prayed this same request three times, each time returning to find His disciples asleep instead of watching with Him (Matthew 26:40-45).
Disciples Who Could Not Stay Awake
Despite Jesus's specific request that they watch and pray with Him, Peter, James, and John fell asleep repeatedly, worn out by grief and the late hour (Luke 22:45). Jesus gently but pointedly rebuked them: 'What, could ye not watch with me one hour? Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak' (Matthew 26:40-41).
This detail is not incidental. It shows the profound loneliness Jesus experienced even among His closest friends as He approached the cross. The very disciples who had pledged loyalty just hours earlier could not manage even an hour of wakeful prayer, foreshadowing their scattering and Peter's denial soon to come.
Betrayal and Arrest
While Jesus was still speaking, Judas Iscariot arrived, leading a crowd armed with swords and clubs, sent by the chief priests and elders (Matthew 26:47). Judas had arranged a signal: 'Whomsoever I shall kiss, that same is he: hold him fast' (Matthew 26:48). He approached Jesus and kissed Him, turning an intimate gesture of greeting into an act of betrayal, which Jesus met with sorrowful directness: 'Friend, wherefore art thou come?' (Matthew 26:50).
When Peter drew a sword and struck the high priest's servant, cutting off his ear, Jesus rebuked him, healed the servant's ear, and submitted to arrest, declaring that He could summon more than twelve legions of angels if He wished but that the Scriptures had to be fulfilled this way (Matthew 26:51-54, Luke 22:50-51). At that point, all the disciples forsook Him and fled (Matthew 26:56).
What Gethsemane Teaches Us
Gethsemane reveals the full weight of what Jesus's sacrifice cost Him. His anguish was not weakness or doubt about the Father's plan; it was the honest reckoning of a truly human soul with the horror of bearing sin's penalty, combined with unwavering submission to obey anyway. He modeled, at the point of greatest cost, exactly what He had taught His disciples to pray: 'thy will be done' (Matthew 6:10).
For believers facing their own seasons of anguish and dread, Gethsemane offers real comfort. Jesus does not command us to face suffering from a distance; He has walked through the deepest kind of sorrow Himself, and the writer of Hebrews assures us He can sympathize with our weaknesses because He was tempted and tested in every way, yet without sin (Hebrews 4:15). Gethsemane is proof that honest, agonized prayer and full submission to God's will are not contradictions but can, and often must, go together.
The scene also warns us against spiritual complacency. Jesus's charge to Peter, James, and John to 'watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation' (Matthew 26:41) was not answered, and within hours all three failed Him in different ways. Gethsemane reminds every reader that good intentions are not enough; sustained, humble dependence on God through prayer is what carries a person through the hour of testing, whether that hour looks like betrayal, loss, illness, or simply the slow grind of daily faithfulness.