"I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a servant of the church at Cenchreae, that you may welcome her in the Lord in a way worthy of the saints, and help her in whatever she may need from you, for she has been a patron of many and of myself as well."
â Romans 16:1-2
Quick Answer
Whatever view a church holds on eldership, Scripture clearly shows women teaching other women and children, prophesying, serving as deacons, hosting churches, supporting ministry financially, and using their spiritual gifts fully (Titus 2:3-5; Romans 16:1-2; Acts 18:26). The church is diminished whenever women's gifts sit unused.
A Bigger Question Than Eldership Alone
Conversations about women in ministry often narrow quickly to the single question of eldership, but that focus can obscure the much larger picture Scripture actually paints. Whatever conclusion a church reaches about the pastor/elder office, the New Testament is full of women serving in significant, valued, Spirit-empowered ministry roles.
Reducing the conversation to one contested office risks missing just how much room the Bible gives women to serve, teach, lead, and minister within the life of the church.
It is worth remembering how radically countercultural Jesus's own treatment of women was in His first-century context. He taught women as devoted disciples (Luke 10:38-42), spoke openly with a Samaritan woman when His own disciples were astonished He would do so (John 4:27), and appeared first after His resurrection to women, who became the first witnesses and messengers of the empty tomb (Matthew 28:1-10). The church has never had biblical warrant to treat women as an afterthought in ministry.
Teaching, Discipling, and Mentoring
Titus 2:3-5 gives older women a clear teaching mandate, to train younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands. This is real teaching authority, exercised within the church, essential to the spiritual formation of half the congregation.
Priscilla, alongside her husband Aquila, took Apollos aside and explained the way of God to him more accurately (Acts 18:26), a clear example of a woman teaching sound doctrine, including to a gifted male preacher, within the bounds most churches recognize as appropriate.
Many churches also entrust women with significant teaching over children and youth of both genders during their formative years, recognizing the enormous spiritual influence a gifted, godly woman can have shaping the next generation's understanding of Scripture, even as those same churches maintain male eldership as the governing office of the congregation.
Serving as Deacons and Ministry Leaders
Paul commends Phoebe as a deacon, or servant, of the church at Cenchreae, describing her as a patron of many, including himself (Romans 16:1-2). Many churches recognize a distinct role of deaconess, allowing women to serve formally in this practical, servant-hearted capacity, caring for the needs of the congregation, especially other women, the sick, and the poor.
Women throughout church history and today lead ministries to children, youth, women's discipleship, missions, hospitality, and mercy, roles Scripture never restricts and often explicitly commends.
Prophesying, Praying, and Using Spiritual Gifts
Paul assumes women prophesying and praying in the gathered church in 1 Corinthians 11:5, addressing how they should do so rather than forbidding it outright. Philip the evangelist had four daughters who prophesied (Acts 21:9), and throughout Scripture, women like Deborah, Huldah, and Anna exercised significant spiritual influence and prophetic ministry (Judges 4:4; 2 Kings 22:14; Luke 2:36-38).
Every believer, male or female, has been given spiritual gifts by the Holy Spirit for the common good, and no gift list in the New Testament is restricted by gender (1 Corinthians 12:7-11; Romans 12:6-8). Women are meant to identify, develop, and actively use whatever gifts God has given them.
The gift of hospitality, the gift of mercy, the gift of teaching, the gift of encouragement, and countless others show up throughout Scripture exercised by women with no qualification suggesting they belong exclusively to men. A church that fails to help women identify and deploy their gifts is not being cautious, it is neglecting a significant portion of the resources Christ has given that congregation for its own health and mission.
The Church Needs Every Member's Gifts
Lydia hosted a church in her home (Acts 16:14-15, 40), and a group of women, including Mary Magdalene, Joanna, and Susanna, provided for Jesus's ministry out of their own means (Luke 8:1-3). These were not marginal figures in the story of the early church, they were essential to it.
A healthy church actively looks for ways to deploy women's gifts fully within whatever structure it believes Scripture establishes, rather than allowing disagreement over one office to become an excuse for sidelining half the congregation. The body of Christ genuinely needs every member functioning, women included, for the whole to be healthy (1 Corinthians 12:14-20).
Making Room for Women to Serve Well
Practically, this means church leaders should not wait passively for women to volunteer, but should actively identify, develop, and deploy the gifts God has already given the women in their congregation. This might look like inviting gifted women to teach in settings appropriate to a church's convictions, training women as counselors and mentors, entrusting them with real ministry responsibility and decision-making within their areas of service, and publicly honoring their contributions the way Paul publicly honored Phoebe, Priscilla, and the many women he named at the end of Romans 16.
It also means listening well when women in the congregation express a sense of calling toward ministry, rather than assuming every such calling must be redirected or minimized. Not every calling leads to eldership, but plenty of genuine callings toward teaching, discipling, counseling, missions, and mercy ministry can and should be wholeheartedly encouraged. A church that only knows how to say no to women's ministry aspirations, without also knowing how to say yes to the many avenues Scripture leaves wide open, has not yet grasped how much of the New Testament's vision for ministry it is leaving unused.